Some Of The Best Ways To Express Your True Self

Something that makes life a lot easier is if you are making a point of really expressing your true self. If you can manage to find a way to do this, you are going to be able to get so much more out of life, and that is going to be absolutely worth your while on the whole. As it happens, there are some amazing ways in which you can hope to express your true self, and it’s a good idea to be aware of them all and try your hand at them all in turn. In this article, we are going to take a look at some of the best that you might want to try out.

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Get Creative

One of the best ways you can possibly show your true self is by getting a little creative. There are many opportunities for creativity, and no matter who you are you should be able to make this a reality. The fact is that expressing yourself in this way brings about so many amazing benefits, and you will find that you never want to look back to a time before you started doing this stuff. You might decide to try your hand at painting, taking photographs, writing, or whatever other art and craft you might think of. In any case, it is going to be a great way to really get yourself out there, so make sure you have considered this.

Own Your Body Language

We all know how important body language is to how people see us, and yet very few people make a point of really taking control of what they are expressing with their bodies. If you want to express yourself fully, however, you are going to find that learning to own your body language is a great way to do so. When you are really aware of what your body is doing and what it might be saying about you, you are more likely to make a point of it, and this is going to mean you come across as so much more vibrantly self-expressive. If you feel you might currently be lacking this mindfulness of body, it’s all about starting to pay attention to what your body is doing in social situations. You can then tailor it as necessary.

Learn To Sing

There is something about singing which is often indicative of your true self, and if you are able to sing honestly then you will find that this is a great route towards being more expressive of yourself. This is not about being a good singer or blowing people away with your voice. It’s more about having the confidence to sing as you would normally sing. You will find that not only does this impress people, but it also allows you to get to a closer understanding of your true inner self in a very powerful way. It’s worth trying out if you are not already doing so, and if you don’t currently tend to sing by yourself.

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Make Sure You Are Living True To Yourself

None of these things are going to make a difference, however, if you are not living true to yourself in general. There are many potential signs that you are not living true to yourself, but the clearest is probably going to be that you are simply not enjoying what you are doing day to day. You might find that you are depressed, or that you just have this feeling of being out of sync with your life. If so, there are many ways to start to fix it, and most notably you might want to think about starting to make some changes to your life. Try to cut out anything that doesn’t fit right with your internal values, for a start.

Learn To Accept Yourself

Many of us have a lot of difficulty with self-acceptance. This can come about due to a number of reasons and causes. Most commonly, it is a result of having an upbringing characterized by a lack of care or love, or where you were made to feel as though you are not worthy in some way or another. Whatever the cause, everyone is able to learn to accept themselves, even if it takes longer for some people than for others. What’s more, everyone is deserving of it, and when you have managed to do this you will find that your ability to express yourself will naturally start to develop more and more.


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Live With Style

What’s your style? Everyone has one, and if you are not aware of what yours is, then this might be the underlying reason why you are struggling to express yourself authentically. To get closer to your own style, you need to pay attention to the kinds of clothes you feel most comfortable in, the sort of company you tend to enjoy, and what your ideal home is like. You can also look into things like what car you drive, which 4×4 rims you choose to upgrade to, and the kinds of decor choices you make. If you put a lot of effort and care into all of these things, you are going to find that you are closer to expressing your true self, and that you feel a lot more in control of your life too.


You might be wondering what meditation can possibly have to do with expressing your true self. But as we have seen, in order to do that you need to make sure that you are aware of what your true self is really like, and that means spending time getting closer to yourself. Those who have a regular meditation practice are so much more likely to have a good sense of who they really are, so if you are keen on achieving that you should think about starting up a meditation practice of your own. The simple act of sitting there observing your thoughts come and go can work wonders when it comes to finding out more about yourself in depth.


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Forgive Yourself

Many of us feel trapped by some of the things we did in the past. These feelings of guilt can be a real burden, and it really can be a prison that you are struggling to escape from. If you want to move on and live more authentically, however, you are going to need to learn to forgive yourself at some point or another. That will mean that you are much more able to express what is going on for you, and you won’t be walking around with this overhanging sense of shame all the time. That is a really important step for any of us to take.

Don’t Pressure Yourself

Even as you try to do all of these things, you should make sure that you are not putting too much pressure on yourself. If you do that, you will find that things are only going to be more challenging, and you might even feel as though you are never quite getting where you need to go. However, if you make a point of avoiding putting pressure on yourself, that will mean that you have a much better chance of expressing your true self honestly and without fear. And that is a sign that you are doing something right.

If you follow along with these tips, you are going to be expressing your true self in no time at all, and life is going to become so much better for it.

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Earle Dutton

Earle Dutton

Earle Dutton is the Chief Blogger and Editor of He founded in 2013 to provide information about LGBTQ friendly events of interest, and to support LGBTQ entertainers and supportive artists who visit our community. Earle is a successful businessman in the Pacific Northwest with a long history of support for and involvement in, the Northwest LGBTQ community. His personal interests include: music, theater, pets, culinary arts and technology.

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