How To Get The Most Out Of Dating Apps

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Most people would agree that dating apps are quite terrible, or at least, most of the interactions you may have on there are. This is because dating apps have incentivized ‘fast dating’ and hookup culture to the degree where actually getting to know someone and being honest online can be seen as overly authentic and a little too familiar.

That said, sometimes it’s not the dating app at fault, but rather how you use it. You could decide to swipe on everyone as if you’re ordering food at face value, or you could try and sit back and consider that which is important to you, what you’re comfortable with, and what kind of conversations and relationships you’re willing to build and encourage.

In this post, then, we’ll discuss how to get the best out of dating apps so that you need not feel them a chore as modern dating is concerned. This way, you can allow these platforms to work for you, and not the other way around. With that in mind, please consider:

Know The Quirks Of Your Chosen Dating App

It’s healthy to learn the quirks of your particular dating app in the best way, as they’re all designed to do something different. Tinder is the most popular, for instance, but is often focused on hookup culture, so it might take just a little bit more time to get to authentic people looking for dates. Some apps allow the women to message as part of male/female matches, potentially giving you a bit more control. Other apps, like Hinge, are more dedicated to helping you find a relationship by asking more questions to help reveal your personality.

Set Your Profile Accordingly

It’s good to set up your profile in a manner that makes it clear what you’re looking for, but also what you’re interested in, what makes you smile, and perhaps some of your favorite music artists. Make sure to set your filters, too, as otherwise, you might find yourself being contacted by those you have no interest in – such as smokers or those below a certain age. These filters aren’t a catch-all, but they can certainly prevent you from wasting your time with conversations that go nowhere.

Don’t Take It Too Seriously, But Don’t Be Shallow

Don’t take the apps too seriously, they’re here to be used optionally after all, or as a supplement to your usual dating life. This is why using tinder pickup lines can put a smile on your face and the face of the recipient while having a funny conversation with someone else can be key. There’s no reason to take dating apps as a super-serious indication of who you’ll finally wed, instead having some fun and some enjoyable consensual meets and dates can bee a great place to start, helping you find more authentic people who are down to earth in the same way.

With this advice, you’re sure to get the most out of dating apps and benefit as a result. After all, being smart and using those apps, not letting them use us, is key.

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Earle Dutton

Earle Dutton

Earle Dutton is the Chief Blogger and Editor of He founded in 2013 to provide information about LGBTQ friendly events of interest, and to support LGBTQ entertainers and supportive artists who visit our community. Earle is a successful businessman in the Pacific Northwest with a long history of support for and involvement in, the Northwest LGBTQ community. His personal interests include: music, theater, pets, culinary arts and technology.

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